Is it Possible to Avoid a Break up?
How can you avoid a break up? You’re probably sensing something that is making your lover bored or wanting to move on and you need to fix it fast. This typically means they aren’t getting everything they need from a relationship with you. If you can figure out what it is and provide it you can probably avoid a break up. It’s probably a good idea just to talk with your partner and see how they feel. Look at each aspect of your relationship and find out what needs improvement.
For a girl to stay for the long run she usually needs security. Security that the guy will be able to provide for her, or at the very least himself. If you’ve been a slacker type and you think she’s gonna leave you for this reason it might be hard to fix fast enough. But going in a clear direction towards financial independence should be as much for yourself as for a lover.
If you’re still too young for this to be relevant still think in terms of being able to provide and be successful. We are attracted to people who make progress in their life. In fact men and women are both just going to want their partner to be successful in some way or another. It gives us another reason to love them and feel proud about it. Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn’t accomplish anything. Make sure you’ve got goals and you’re working towards them and you’ll avoid a break up.
Sexual excitement is so important to keep interest going for men and women. If you want to avoid a break up, remind your lover how excited they get you. Make lots of physical contact. Little gestures can go a long way, like putting your hand on her lower back or wrapping your arms around him. Caress the back of their neck or play with their hair. If you’re a guy you should be making suggestive remarks about how much you want her.
Tell her she looks good. If you’re a girl, put your beauty on display for him. The way you move and carry your posture has an electrifying affect on men. Teasing also helps. Get them really interested and playfully make fun of them or make them wait. Make a feeling of suspense when you make love that’s unpredictable.
You have to take care of yourself as well. Not only so you look good but so you have lots of energy for your lover to have fun with. You should be eating healthy with lots of fresh fruits and vegetables to keep you clean inside and smelling good. And you should be exercising enough to stay fit and trim. You’ve probably heard the phrase “healthy is sexy” and I think most of us agree with it. Practice smiling because it’s a big part of being healthy! 😀
Finally if there are some obvious pet peeves that are bothering your lover you’ll definitely want to curb those habits to avoid a break up. After long relationships little habits of ours can start to bother our lovers. Find out what bothers them and then keep those habits to yourself or change them.
Also consider the possibility that to avoid a break up might be the wrong thing to do! If you are sensing a tension in the relationship that has to do with deep differences in character between you and your lover it might be for the better that you two split.
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