Does Your Ex Suffer from Dumper’s Remorse?
If you’ve been dumped recently, you don’t need me to tell you how much pain it can be to go through a break up. Suddenly finding yourself single and having to sort through all the emotional challenges on your own can be one of the hardest things out there.
But maybe your ex is having second thoughts about the break up. Dumper’s remorse is not uncommon, especially when you start following some simply break up advice like using the No Contact Rule to heal from the pain of a break up and taking your life in a new direction by improving certain aspects of yourself.
However, your ex may be hesitant about just coming out and saying that they made a mistake. Your ex might be feeling dumper’s remorse, but they also don’t want to go through the embarrassment of admitting that they made a mistake by breaking up with you. They’d probably feel stupid for making a huge decision like breaking up and then come crawling back to you.
In fact, after a break up, the dumper also feels a very strong sense of guilt. They know that they hurt you and they don’t like to think of themselves as the kind of person who causes pain to others. This is actually the main reason why your ex may have been less than communicative after the break up. Every time they were around you, they probably felt somewhat guilty for hurting you. So it was easier for them to just block you out for awhile.
So, if you want to save your relationship, you might need to give your ex a hand in getting past this emotional block. If you’ve been seeing your ex for a bit and the two of you seem to be getting along with each other well, it can really help if you bring up the subject of getting back together yourself.
Just say something like you know, the two of us have been getting along well lately. Maybe we should give our relationship another shot. What do you think?
If they’ve been feeling dumper’s remorse, your ex will probably be open to talking about this. They may hide the fact, but there is a good chance that they will be breathing a sigh of relief on the inside. It can be difficult for them to say what they are really thinking, especially if they are afraid of feeling stupid for changing their mind about you and your relationship.
But if your ex is feeling dumper’s remorse, it can be difficult to overcome the complicated emotions that they are feeling. Often a little bit of understanding can help considerably. If your ex knows that you’re not going to judge them or think less of them, they will open up and share their honest feelings with you. And that may be the only thing you need to save your relationship and work things out with them.
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